Play
Date Activity
“Play
is the work of child.”
Maria Montessori
We came to
know about playdate activity which was organized by a preschool in our
locality. Got to know about this through known lady in our society, who is also
a mother. We met with each other daily in garden when kids were busy in playing
and we mothers discussed how to keep them engage. We shifted to Pune few months
back, so we didn’t have much friends over here who have kids of same age to
plan regular play date at someone’s place. After discussing with husband, I
decided to go for it. But everyone else in my family is quite apprehensive
about my decision. They all thought he is too young for such kind of activity
(he is 15 months old). They all said I am putting extra pressure on kid, he
might get afraid of the school set up and will get uncomfortable in the new
environment. But I was very clear in my head, if he did not feel comfortable I
will not continue the playdate activity. I was bombarded with lots and lots of
questions
1.Many of
my friends and family asked me why play date activity is important?
2.What made me think to join this activity?
3.My son is youngest of all the kids, aren’t
you afraid he might catch some infection?
4.Why you
want to get rid of your responsibility so soon?
The play
date activity was scheduled from 7th feb to 12th feb
2018. Timings for the play date was 10-12pm, this 2 hours session included
rhyme session, activity for particular day, lunch break and outdoor play.
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Rhyme
session includes regular poems to make children calm down and make them settle
for the further activity.
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Every
day activity includes paper tearing, painting, sticker pasting, all these
activities help is fine motor skill development.
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Story
telling session covers telling of story through hand puppets, which helps in
improving listening skills and verbal proficiency.
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Outdoor
play was unstructured play which includes slides, swings and see saw play.
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School
provided some time for free play for kids when other children are busy in doing
activity, by that time kids can play with blocks, puzzles, and kitchen set.
So
finally, the day, Monday came and we reached our destination. First day was
more of an orientation day where we get to know about school, their vision and
mission.
On the
next day after orientation we got little late for our play date program and
missed the rhyme session. But we were lucky we got to attend the next activity
which was paper tearing activity (this activity helps children to develop their
fine motor skills) we elder thought is was a simple thing to tear a paper. But
have you ever seen small kids to tore paper, it’s very difficult for them to
use their index finger and thumb for tearing the paper. AJ likes to tear the
crepe paper, but he didn’t like to paste it on fish. So he left the activity in
middle and start roaming here and there.
On
Wednesday we did coloring activity which he really likes. He did it with the
help of mommy. That was his first experience with the water color. He likes to
make strokes on paper with brush.
On
Thursday we did dough play, made different animal with the stencils. AJ was not
interested in playing with dough. He did not like
On Friday
we made basket with the paper glass and decorate it with different shapes made
up of glitter paper.
Saturday was the last day but it was the much fun filled day
followed by graduation ceremony and party. School organized painting session of
kids with their fathers. We did a small painting with the daddy dearest and AJ
got his first participation certificate.
With all this
activity daily we had rhyme session, storytelling session, and free play. Every
program has its pros and cons and I am listing few of them.
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The
first and foremost thing was that I was very clear in my mind, if my kid didn’t
enjoy the session we will quit the activity and not pressurize him to go
further.
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But
to my concern my boy enjoyed the session and he was very much comfortable over
there.
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It
helped us in improving our kid social skills as we lived in nuclear setup, we
didn’t get much time to interact with other, except the evening play time in
the garden.
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Our
scheduled get more organized, than the other days when we were at home. Both me
and AJ get ready on time with our bag packs.
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There
are chances the kid might get scared because of new people. Kids are not
comfortable with the strangers. If they are not ready to mingle with others,
let them be by themselves
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If
child is not ready to certain activity, don’t compel them to do it. If we force
them, they will get irritated and in future might be not like it.
This all we
had during our play day activity and we really enjoyed it. If I get this
opportunity again will definitely go for it. If you also get chance to do
something like this with your kids, don’t miss that because you will be amazed to see your kid in new environment. They will definitely surprise you with their exploration and inquisitiveness.
It
is a Happy talent to know how to play.
Ralph Waldo Emerson
AJ First Painting |
Play Dough Activity |
Graduation Day |
Painting With papa |